Posts Tagged ‘book’

Did you miss the boat?


09 Jan

Well I did, but that is another story.

What I hope you didn’t miss the boat on is Tom Venuto’s new book. If you for missed my video review of the book you can go here.

http://avidityfitness.net/2009/01/07/the-body-fat-solution-review-tom-venuto/

In the video I mention an essay contest and that two people will receive a copy of the new Tom Venuto book.
I got two books, hot off the presses, for you and all you have to do is tell me a few things. All you have to do is open up a little bit and share a little about yourself.

This essay isn’t about fat loss, it is about your life. Just as you had to in school I am asking you know to answer, is 200 words or more, one question.

What does “future” mean to you?

Please submit essays to me either in comments or through the contact form. You have 36 hours.

The Body Fat Solution-Review-Tom Venuto


07 Jan

I hate doing video.

I hate taking pictures.

I look weird and I don’t like it.

I made an exception for one man. Tom Venuto.

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Go buy the book. Go on, go get it!

PS-Tomorrow I will be announcing the details of the essay contest where I will be giving away 2 copies of The Body Fat Solution.

PSS-Please support Tom and pass the word around. He is one of the good ones and it has a chance to hit the big time. Could you imagine good information actually getting out to the masses?

The New Fat Loss Troubleshoot is Here!


26 Dec

It’s here! I can’t believe all the extra and edits are done.  I am so thankful for all of your help, this would not have been completed and in the manner it was without you. A extra special thanks to Sinead, if you weren’t taken I would sweep you up an keep you for myself.

So what does all the new stuff include?

Guys, come on, you have to go look at my new sexy page!!! I have bathroom signs and everything.

http://fatlosstroubleshoot.com

Fine, here is a little preview…

Fat Loss Troubleshoot-Complete 150+ book on fat loss complete with charts, tips, outlines, and research on fat loss and nothing but!
Metabolic Repair Manual -A comprehensive book that covers thyroid, eating disorders, metabolic problems and how to recover from them.
Fat Loss Troubleshoot-Audio Program-Audio follow along for the book.
OPT For Fat Loss-Fast Fat loss program for those looking to lose a large amount of weight
OPT For Fat Loss: Remix-Program for those looking to lose last pounds of fat or those working at maintaining optimum LBM.
The Maintenance Manual-Guide that helps you keep the fat off.
The Water Manual-A manual that goes over contest and photo shoot prep and water manipulation and how to drop water weight.
Meal Plans 2.0-Meal plan guide in grams ranging from 1200 to 2400 calories a day.

Now get out of here and go check it out.

PS-Those who haven’t gotten the package send me their email address they used to buy it so that I can just send it to you right now.

OR

-I am going to email everyone one by one who bought it. Now this is going to take a while. Even though I have a helper on this there has been a lot sold so it might be within 48-72 hours that you get an email.

I suggest if really itching for it send me a PM here or a email at trainer at avidityfitness.net with your email address and I will shoot it to you a lot faster. You might get a 2nd email as well, just ignore it or have fun a download it again.

You have to the love fun and quirks of mass emailing thousands of people.

PSS-If you love the book, do me a favor, get the word out. Share it with the world because this information is different. I want the “opinion” of weight loss to be done with, once and for all.

Mixed relationships: For better or for worse


21 Dec

Where we last left off we were discussing the selection process of dating. Let’s assume now that you have chosen your mate. Be it marriage or a serious long term relationship, the person you are with now is settled into your life. What now?

Makeover that never was

Studies show that 74% of all relationships are entered into based on the hope of making large changes in the person that they are with. Meaning that from the get go the majority of people had a desire for an improvement for the person that they were with. Funny that the very thing that you wanted to improve on your partner (or them to you) isn’t what you think. 89% of the time the improvement that you want to make on your partner (or them to you) is the #1 thing that THEY complain about. If I asked you “If you could change one thing about your partner, what would it be?” how likely are you to give an answer of something that you know that want to change themselves? While people are judgmental, the truth always has been that the finger that points the hardest is towards ourselves.

Family feud results are in

What is the number one personal complaint about ourselves? Do I really need to tell you? You guessed it. In both men and women the number one complaint about ourselves is personal body composition. Men who gained weight were more likely to report marital problems than men who lost weight and they have a harder time dealing with it than women. However, men are twice as likely to have a problem with their partner being overweight. Goes to show you that the thing we are most insecure about with ourselves are what we are most critical of when it comes to others.

Honey, what did you get from the store today?

Women lead by a large margin in the department of food control. Women do the shopping, the cooking, and the food selection in the majority of households. Many studies have shown that women are triggered by more emotional behavioral eating and pulled more towards carbohydrates to stimulate a positive endorphin signaling in the brain. The problem is that the constant back and forth that occurs through the comfort eating process causing control issues and feeling of guilt. This leads to suppressing anger  towards their mate. Women more than men try to make up for their “failing” appearance and will power. In doing so it can lead towards allowing their counterpart to respect them less which can lead to a cascade of problems. On the flip side women are more verbal than men about their unhappiness with their weight thinking that men don’t care or are even proud of their loss of lean body. They try to please them with the food they buy, but guilt them for it later due to jealousy and personal doubt at the moment of change. Oh that tangle web we weave.

Change is Scary

At some point something clicks for one in the couple. Ideally it would be both, but it is usually rare that this occurs. The majority of you reading this now are here because you have a desire or a need to change your body composition. Getting the education is only half the battle. Let’s assume that now you know what it is that you have to do in order to achieve fat loss (because you bought the book right?) but applying that in real life is easier said than done. There are 3 main obstacles that the majority of you are going to have to deal with when you start dieting down. Hopefully these tips will help you get through them.

#1-They don’t like your food-

It is hard enough to re-teach your tastebuds when motivated but changing the tastebuds of those who aren’t. Your family may not like your food. They may hate your food. They want different food. They want you to make them pie, order a pizza, or keep those snacks around that you nibble on yourself. Yeah, try sticking to your calories when you have a large cheese pizza in from of you.

Solution?

They need to suck it up and help you. If you really care enough to change then it shouldn’t take a lifetime and they can deal with making it easier on you for a short time. If you don’t think you deserve it, it won’t go over well. If you don’t really want it, it won’t go over well. You need to be as dedicated to it as you hope they are. That is the first step. Now that you have that understood, I want to leave you with one more thing. If you really can’t go to your family and ask them for this help, then you may have found one of the reasons you went to food in the first place.

#2-Sabotage brought on by fear-

Is the wife complaining about you losing your softness? Is your boyfriend all the sudden bringing home fast food or making stuff he didn’t used to? Are you starting to get complaints about how you are changing or that you are cheating? This is nothing but a sad attempt of not allowing you to change because of what that change might mean.  A lot of people have a hard time understanding that you could be unhappy with an aspect of you life, but that doesn’t mean you want a completely different one.

Solution?

While they are being big babies it doesn’t matter, they are still scared. Your job, is to do the best you can to remind them, all the time, how much you love them. They need to know that you are doing this for yourself and so that you can be happier be with them. You need to assure them about your fears, really talk to them and let you know who you are. Remember people fear what they don’t understand.

#3-You do feel different, and you don’t know what that means

Sometimes when we finally gain a certain level of respect we realize that we made some bad decisions along the way. Sometimes that is in our job, sometimes it is in our friends, and sometimes it is in our partner. You aren’t going to find me on the camp of staying with someone because it is the right thing to do.  I have seen so much in my life and if it is one thing I know, it is that life is too beautiful to waste it just because it is the right thing to do.

Solution?

Try, try with all your might to grow with the person you are with. However, if they can’t grow with you, if they are bringing you down, then fly like a bird, fly far far away.

A Child Can Ask Questions That a Wise Man Cannot Answer…


30 Oct

When I was little, until around 10 years old or so, I had nose bleeds almost everyday. I had a birth defect that made my nose do something strange. The truth is I never knew why, the doctors never knew why. I am not talking a little blood on the tip of a tissue here. I am talking massive soaking on multiple tissues. The docs said that I had to “let it come out”, that it was so much and that “something” was draining so I couldn’t “clog” it. So every day I would usually sit at a toilet for a hour and just let it drain, drip by drip, until done.

My teachers understood the “let it drain” aspect of it, however, every once in a while a “new adult” would come around and be in the presence of these gushers. They would proceed to try and tilt my head back to stop it from flowing out. I would fight them and tell them, while almost dying and choking, that “it has to drain!” They would never believe me until another adult came along and said that what I was saying was correct. By that time my Punky Brewster shoes were covered and I was a pissed off little kid.

I believe this was one of the beginning reasons as to why I grew up thinking that adults were stupid and that I was smarter than they were. It also instilled to me that authority and social proof were more important that the common sense teachings of a child. It was then I knew that I was on my own and left to fend for myself. When I would get a nose bleed around strangers I would take off running, not out of embarrassment like they must have thought, but out of protection of their stupidity.

Fast forward to now…

Now when I go to the doctor office for something (rare and only if really really needed) they hurt me, usually don’t know what they are doing, and still will not listen to the common sense of the person who “lacks a clear authority.” Let me state here and now, that this is why I am who I am and I do what I do. I do not like to think that I have to depend on uneducated person to help me help myself. When at all possible I try to answer my own questions. When at all possible I “run” from the stranger that is trying to fix a problem the wrong way that I know how to fix the right way. It is NOT being cocky, it is self preservation. It is NOT being paranoid, it is being educated. With that being said, not everyone has the time or the ability to do that.

No problem, allow me please.

I will do the best I can to be an “authority” that listens to what you have to say. I will do the best I can to be a “leader” that guides you to the answer and how to find it, not just expect you to believe me. I will do the best I can to not be that stupid substitute teacher that tried to hold my head upside down as I was telling her the answer to my problem. Keep sending in your questions, the “doctor” is in.

Episode 16: I Found Leigh On the Fitcast

1- Hila

Hi Leigh!

I had visited your website after hearing you on the FitCast podcasts, I love listening to you. You talk so clearly and to the point, and obviously know what you’re doing. You have a fan from Israel :)

I have a question for you, I’m a female, 23 years old, and after a ~100 pound lost. (If you want to check me out these are my progress pics: http://bodyspace.bodybuilding.com/Hilush/more.php?section=progresspics)
I’ve read Alan’s Girth Control, Tom’s Burn the fat, endless articles and forums and I’ve never read anything related to the hormonal aspect of weight loss for women, it has been mostly about deficits and other thermodynamics laws. My period has been very unstable since the weight loss, and tends to disappear for months then suddenly come back. According to my blood tests only, my doctor said I have PCOS (or PCO) and I should take birth control pills. She said this has nothing to do with my weight loss and that it is a born syndrome with no real cure. I am very concerned about this issue since I’m afraid I somehow messed up with my female hormones!

Do you know of any relation between PCO appearing after a big weight loss? Could the loss of period be caused by anything else besides PCO? I’m not a doctor but my blood test kind of seems alright to me and I suspect it is just the doctor’s default answer to period being irregular… My weight loss was done through a pretty drastic deficit, combined with resistance training and cardio.

Do any of your books talk about hormones issues? I’d definitely buy a book that’d shed some light over this topic I really agree with your realistic approach to fat loss and how you emphasize the body & mind connection in the process, oh and your videos are priceless, you always make me laugh :)

Waiting to hear your advice,
Thanks!
Hila.

2- Fred

Hi,

I have been listening to the fitcast and you seem to be up on nutrition, duhh, I have a question that has been bugging me.

Although I am not vegetarian I have been interested in varying my protein sources but combining protein chains for veggie sources is perplexing me, as you will see below.

I am looking into combining grain/nut/legume into full branch chains for protein. I have found loads of combinations (lentils and oats is my favorite at the moment, ends up like a savory pottage). However vegetarian websites don’t seem to mention if you sum the protein from each source or divide. To clarify here’s an example:

Total Protein (read from nutritional info on packets):

(A)
100g lentils + 50g oats = 26g + 6g = 32g protein

(B)
100g lentils + 50g oats = 6 + 6 = 12g protein

(C)
100g lentils + 50g oats = 6/2 + 6/2 = 6g protein

As you can see option (A) assumes that the amino acids to combine to create a larger more complete chain so you get more protein. Option (B) assumes that since the Oats only have 6g protein only 6g of protein can be utilized from the lentils to create a larger chain. Option (C) assumes that rather summation the aminos “interweave” so in fact you only get 6g of “full” protein.

I am not a veggie. I normally have 1-2 scopes of whey, 1 fish, and 1 chicken/mince portion a day so I am getting full branch chains elsewhere. I was just wondering how to process vegetarian combinations.

Thanks

(Edit for Fred-Check out Lyle’s Protein Book Here, If Desire to Order Click on Book To Purchase)

3- Diana

Hi Leigh,

It’s possible I may need some modifications during the re-feed (diabetes). I can handle insulin adjustments and sugars just fine but would prefer to set it up in such a way as to avoid wild swings if possible as then I just feel like crap. Anyway I would love your thoughts on that rather than me just winging it myself. On the other hand it’s just one day so maybe just leave well enough alone. And I perfectly understand just fine if you don’t want to get into it being as this is a medical condition we’re talking about here.

Thanks
Diana

4- Hot Rox

Good Morning Leigh,

Just want to say first and foremost keep up the great work! I finally bought your book The Fat Loss Troubleshoot and have already skimmed over most of it :) An audio version would be a great compliment to it. It would be great for people such as myself who have the attention span of a circus monkey and would benefit from listening either on the job or at the gym. Your awesome personality during your audio works make it enjoyable to listen to, and learn a great deal at the same time, you sound like a person that would be fun to throw back some beers with.

But this message isn’t entirely intended to kiss your ass, but you do deserve some major kudos.

Quick update
Male
27 years
5′6″
130.8 lbs lost since 3/5/07
Currently about 174 lbs
Omron handheld bf% mid 16’s through October measured first thing in morning

Not happy with the way the skin situation looking.

Yes I feel great, and I’m doing all kinds of nifty little things I couldn’t do before such as a pull up and now 20 push ups! I really love the physical aspect, and new found confidence in my physical abilities and I look good in clothes

Alas…Seeing myself naked is something that happens on a daily basis, and it is something I think about every day, as I slowly run out of bodyfat to train off.

Frankly the thought of invasive surgery and anesthesia scare the shit out of me. I briefly recall heard something about the anti-aging crowd using HGH to look younger or something along those lines, maybe even Testosterone. Maybe you know someone via your connections that might have experience with this taboo subject?

I want to reinforce that I’m not looking for a quick fix. Diet and exercise has been my staple and I pride myself and transforming with hard work, and the couple uses of Hot Rox extreme. I’m just a pussy when it comes to having pieces of me cut off and removed :)

Mike Robertson-Self Myofascial Release (aka-He gave away a whole freaking ebook)


01 Sep

(Note: This was not the scheduled blog today )

I currently at least five different emails. I want to break them down for you so that you can understand me on a level you may not want to because I am a dork.

Email #1-My First REAL email. I call it my first real email because after 3 other failed emails I finally understood what spam was, how not to get it to come to my email, and how to use email wisely. Still use it once in a while.

Email #2-My “personal stuff” only email. My other email was becoming more business like, shipping stuff, ebay, you know, technical email. So I decided to have a personal email, for important things like, you know, myspace.

Email #3-My spam email. This was email that I used specifically for things that I wanted to get in email but I didn’t want to have to look at all the time. I deemed it my newsletter/information email. Kind of like pre-RSS feed. I still use it to this day for most newsletters.

Email #4 and #5 are “business” emails that have basically replaced my other emails. While I still use my other emails, these are my primary emails. I hold these emails in high regard. I keep them to clients and customer service information. I also have some personal email come through there so I can get to it fast, faster than my others.

You might be asking at this point, “What the hell are you talking about?”

Well I am going to be honest and say that even guys I like and respect I put in the spam email. There are only a small amount of people that I sign up to their newsletters or emails and have them sent to my main mailing address. It isn’t personal, it is just I get a LOT of email everyday and sometimes I just can’t handle more, even of things I want.

Well I took this weekend to play catch up on some newsletters and lucky for me the first one was Mike Robertson’s newsletter. Understand by the way this isn’t selling you anything, there is no affiliate link coming. I don’t even have one for Mike because it is “Shopping Cart” and I am too lazy to set it up. This isn’t really about fat loss either, although it IS body composition/posture/rehab and that is really important. No basically this is just giving props to a guy who practically wrote and gave away an entire manual of such valuable, free, and solid information to his newsletter list that it has inspired me to make him a exception to my rule.

I have no idea if this is for his list only, one time only thing, or what. I have no idea if this is available elsewhere, if he is linking to it or not. Maybe if you sign up and bug him, he will give it to you if you missed it, I don’t know. All I know is that a comprehensive and well written manual on SMR popped up in my inbox, for free, and my first thought was “I am a jackass, this guy is too good to be in your “spam” email section.”

Well Mike Robertson, you have been moved to better quarters my man. Great manual.

If looking to sign up for his newsletter you can go to his blog and check it out on the right hand side.

http://robertsontrainingsystems.blogspot.com/

The Fat Loss Troubleshooter – Leigh Peele

Common Sense Meets Advanced Knowledge